"Hi Girls! Don't Chase Boys, Chase the Best Version of Yourself"

Have you ever felt sad because someone you loved dearly left you? Or perhaps you've felt like your life was ruined because the relationship you fought for didn't end as you hoped?

Not everything that's lost is a loss. Sometimes God takes something from our lives because He knows it's not best for us. And believe me, God never takes something without replacing it with something better, whether in the near future or at a time we don't yet know.

You may not understand the reason today. But one day you'll see that what God took wasn't really what was best for you.

Stop Chasing People Who Aren't Chasing You

One mistake women often make is focusing too much on chasing someone to the point of forgetting about themselves.

Afraid there won't be another man besides him?

No way!

The world is vast. God has millions of ways to bring you together with the right person. Never think that your happiness depends on just one person.

Focus on Improving Yourself

Instead of chasing someone, focus on improving yourself.

Improve your worship. Expand your knowledge. Learn new skills. Take care of your health. Improve your self-esteem.

Learn a foreign language, at least English. Besides being beneficial for your career and education, language skills also open up many opportunities in life.

And who knows, your soulmate might even be from another country. Hahaha.

For unmarried Indonesian women, don't worry too much about finding a soulmate. Your soulmate might be thousands of kilometers away right now, and God is arranging the right time to bring you together.

Your job now isn't to search everywhere, but to prepare yourself for when that time comes.

Don't Beg for Love

Girls, if someone truly wants you in their life, they'll make an effort.

If they're consistently indifferent, don't provide reassurance, or make you feel alone in the relationship, don't push it.

Love should be fought for by two people, not just one.

Don't waste years on someone who isn't even sure about you.

You're not a backup option. You're not a temporary stopover. And you don't need to beg for attention or love from anyone.

Consider Yourself Valuable

Imagine a pearl at the bottom of the ocean.

It's valuable not because everyone can have it, but because its value is high and difficult to obtain.

So are you.

You are valuable.

You deserve respect.

You deserve to be loved in a good way.

And you deserve to be fought for by someone who is truly serious about building a future with you.

Think Positively and Trust in God's Plan

As Muslim women, we must always strive to think positively of God.

Because the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught that God is in accordance with the expectations of His servants.

If you continue to think that it's difficult to find a good partner, continue to feel inadequate, and continue to doubt your future, then those negative thoughts will continue to burden your life.

Instead, be confident that God is able to give you the best at the best time.

Continue to improve yourself, pray, and strive.

Believe me, a good partner is also looking for someone good.

Closing

Girls, don't chase men. Chase the best version of yourself.

Build your self-esteem, increase your knowledge, improve your morals, maintain your relationship with Allah, and love yourself the right way.